Stepping out of my comfort zone

For those who know me, you know how hard this is for me to "step outside my box". I am extremely structured, organized and planned with everything I do. Some may remember my 10 year plan I wrote back in college. So this move was a big jump for me. Not knowing where everything is, how things are done, and exactly how to do everything, is killing me. I have learned things about my washer and dryer, who knew this was going to be a problem? I've learned the garbage rules, now I just need my husband to follow them before we get a note from the garbage men. I am starting to understand signs and rules for riding my bike, but still have lots to learn. But one thing I am not prepared for, but is necessary, is finding someone to watch my kids occasionally. I am very spoiled that I have always had family or friends around to watch my kids. I have never had to rely on a "typical" babysitter. Unfortunately, having three kids really limits what you can do around here. Going out to eat is a two to three hour process, Brooklyn might be able to handle this, but the boys, forget it. We also have been invited to a BBQ that would be more fun if it were just the adults. Also, I am sure down the line there will be work related functions that will not include the kids. So it is necessary that I have someone in place before the need arises. I do have a number for a girl who comes highly recommended from a co-worker of Jason's. She starts college in the fall and helps out with a local girl scout troup. I just need to find the nerve to call her. Sounds silly I know, but this is very hard for me. It's like pulling off a bandaid. You know you have to do it and once it is done you wonder what all the fuss was about. What is even more funny is that this is only the first step, what am I going to be like when I actually leave the kids with her for the first time?